Three Steps to a New Life -interview

                         THREE STEPS TO A NEW LIFE

 

Recently, I had an interview that is helpful to resolve old issues and situations from the past.  The three steps I discuss with Brandon Densmore are also on my You Tube with my other videos.  These three ideas moved me into a life of leaving the past behind so I could be free to enjoy my current happenings The relief and freedom from the past is a gift you can give yourself.  There is no charge, but many happy returns.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LN3MJOtbGG8&t=1s

Three Steps to a New Life

 

I have overcome many illnesses and diseases to find the answers to their resolutions into sanity and happiness.  My experience, training, and meditations brought me answers not usually understood by the medical or psychology fields. They were answers that really work and bring results. My books, writing, blog, and website have answers to life problems. However, through healing my own life, I found some basic answers that work for most situations.           

 My own issues have brought me to discovering that all our problems stem from some kind of fear.  Often, we are so use to automatically reacting with ways to defend ourselves that we stay in survival, or masking our true feelings acting out in ways that lead us away from reality. We stay in behavior to protect ourselves, but in the big picture actually bring more harm over time. Fortunately, I  am usually able to find the root cause of difficulties, illnesses, and fears. 

 Three steps to bring relief to situation, circumstance, or people who have been harmful by my perception. Step One is to find forgiveness. During my own experience of my husband trying to kill me, I was told in the silence to "Forgive him for he knows not what he does". I was too traumatized to refute this advice. Always, I was very obedient and in my fear, I did what I was told. The angels circled around him so he could not move forward. He stood there like a statue as I prayed this.  I was escorted out of the room by more angels, as I had to walk right past him out of the room.

 Eighteen years later, I realized that in my trying to protect myself, it felt like an attack on him, subconsciously. He was trying to protect himself. In my defending myself unwittingly, it was as if I were on the offensive. When I found he was acting out for his own protection visually, from my invisible attack, I had to give up my defensiveness.  I had to send love, so that would return.  By praying, to forgive him, it was a way to send love and stop the terrifying conflict. What goes around comes around. This stopped the domestic violence.

He had been deeply wounded as a child and was in extreme survival. It made sense that all people at some level are wounded. His harms were more intense than most people experience. I realized that all people have some kind of woundedness from which they are protecting themselves.  If  I send love to them it softens their reaction.

I do not send forgiveness to let them off the hood, but for me to "give up the past" "for a new day"— forgive. I can the move in my life and leave it in the past as if I cut the ball and chain connecting us. Now, I am able to live in the moment which is a gift and why it is called The Present. 

Step Two is to pray for the other person. As I continued to send prayers to him, he never touched me again. Sending prays is sending love and love does not hurt. It is the amour of God. I learned a special prayer, Ho'oponopono Pray from an Hawaiian psychologist who  was at a hospital for the mentally ill. He prayed this every day for each patient and over time the hospital was closed as all the patients were healed.

The prayer is simple " I am sorry, Forgive me, Thank you, and I Love you".  This allows me to take responsibility for writing the script where the other person agrees to teach me forgiveness, compassion, and gratitude for the opportunity to move into a higher consciousness.  In other words, I take responsibility for those things happening to me are opportunities for my spiritual growth. He was my teacher, even though it was traumatic.  I needed the intense lessons to turn to my Creator for help. Today, I realize that my husband and I were connected by having very similar childhoods of abuse. Nowadays, I have not only forgiveness, but compassion for him and what he endured to play that part for me.  Currently, I use this pray with all my past issues and harms. 

Step Three is to live one day at a time. Living in the "Now" means my mind is not focused on the past nor the future.  The past is history and I can build the future from how I live today.  I try to do something helpful to another each day for the next day to be better.  My future grows as I add to the positive thinking and behavior of my current day. It merges with tomorrow.  With all my focus in the current minute, I accomplish more and it has more profundity as all my efforts are not split in my mind to other projects. There is less stress when I have a single focus. I am not overwhelmed with other things on my mind. I easily move to the right next thing with the same total focus and by the end of the day it has gone smoothly and well.  I feel fulfilled and successful. I had a good day. 

If you would like to hear my interview, where I explain this on the internet click on the link,

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LN3MJOtbGG8&t=1s.  It was a wonderful opportunity to share this message on You Tube and my Face Book Page/  My books are at

https://www.amazon.com/stores/Marilyn-Redmond/author/B0069WIKDC  and my newest book link

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https://www.amazon.com/dp/0944851630?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860

 

A New Mind Set for Life

 

Through faith and trust, it is possible to rise above the past. The forces of Darkness have kept this knowledge from us throughout centuries. Keeping the population in lies, misinformation, fake news, and distractions stops inner searching for the answers to life and love. It is easy to dominate fearful people and have them look for external salvation. The real answers are within.  

Love has always been within my heart. I learned that I needed to give up being the manager of my life or pay attention to experts. I was afraid to listen and be vulnerable. This is my defining moment, a decision to move beyond past difficulties as I follow my internal voice of guidance and direction. . It is only possible to support life by moving into a higher level of realization.

For me surrendering for caring help from my heart was the most difficult decision and action I have taken. In my growing up love hurt.  Today, I know better and choose to replace my ego driven life of the past to become an agent of love. This was the turning point in my life. It is called the leap of faith.

With a new foundation, it is possible to grow into forgiveness, gratitude, compassion, and unconditional love that transports being in the world, but not of it. Well-being is living in the moment. This is a gift and why it is called The Present. Fresh feelings of harmony, serenity, and joy fill me. I am a spiritual being letting go of human burdens and errors as I grow back to my source of health and wellness.

"Everything in life is a vibration", said Albert Einstein. Ester Hicks who channels Abraham brought the pieces together for me. "As you identify the thing that you want and you achieve vibrational harmony with it, by the Law of Attraction, you summon the Energy through you, and that is what life is.". This process is described in my book, "Paradigm Busters". It is as simple as "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear." 1 John 4:18. I changed my past by changing me.

 Through The Law of Attraction, which is about aligning with the love of God, new perceptions of compassion and synchronicity appear. . The Law of Attraction is not about material wealth and possessions, but in attracting joy, love, and caring that manifest in a healthy emotional life. A higher consciousness attracts a higher-quality life. The right use of will power is to unite with your higher power's grace and love, knowing that God's grace is sufficient. Intuition is the presence of your higher self, which gives a beautiful vision of humanity joined in harmony and well-being.

 I believe grief is the basis of more illness than is usually identified. When you experience the sorrow of the past, you are free to move into grace. The emotional barriers I had built to protect me were actually preventing health and good things in my life. The stuck energy releases to allow the love to flow and there is no dis-ease or symptoms. Healing your pain and suffering is the biggest gift you can give yourself. With a new cause, there are better outcomes.

 Reprogramming your thinking is necessary as the past culture sent ego messages of anxiety that keep us separated from the loving universe that created us. Releasing the old negativity allows room for the good and truth to be real in our lives. The following honest sentences help you bring about all the renewed good health and energy you have wanted.

 Honesty is my connection to a higher power. I move into the sunlight of the spirit, that is the solution to my medical and other problems. There is no sickness in the grace of a higher power. My books have tools to find health and wellness from within.

 Affirmations affirm the truth and come from love. Saying affirmations to replace old thinking and behavior is most beneficial in retraining thoughts. They bring health because it changes the mindset from the ego driven life into your heart where all is good.

 Reframing thinking for doing the next right thing from the heart takes practice. Moving from the head into the heart for good orderly direction brings good results supporting health and well-being. Loving messages bring productive information to your body from self-love are often termed miracles.

  I freely release all pain, illness, and imbalance, feelings stronger with every day.

·         I am now renewing my body's ability to heal itself.

·         I balance my body, thoughts, and feelings easily each day.

·         I am now in perfect harmony.

·         Each time I want a __(a cigarette, drink, sweets), I now notice what I'm feeling.

·         I now say my feelings instead of swallowing them.

·         My body grows more beautiful.

·         I can see God/Life give my health back to me.

·         My body is now healing miraculously!

·         My strength grows steadily with every new day!

·         I am now willing to be free of all pain and illness.

·         I am now becoming the picture of health, again!

·         I accept, love, and respect my body completely.

·         My body returns my loving support.

·         I let the white light from above and within heal me with love.

·         I do not need this problem and send it away.

·         I heal this part of me with every new day.

 Changing  the focus from your head/ego to your heart center, is the answer to your life improving. The fearful messages from the brain are replaced with loving messages that support health and well-being. The change occurs with loving support of the spirit. The well-known psychic Edgar Cayce said, ""For, that we find in the spirit taketh from in the mind. Mind becomes the builder. The physical body is the result." 

 What you focus on grows. My mind set determines my life and a loving mindset of healthy thoughts become manifested.. Think good thoughts because thoughts become things, so think the good ones. I find that I have to do my part is most important; it is an inside job. Before I heard this prayer, I had never thought about taking responsibility for my health and well-being.

Prayer for Spiritual Healing

I ask the Great Unseen Healing Force

To Remove All Obstructions From My Mind and Body

And to Restore Me to Perfect Health

I ask this in all Sincerity and Honesty

And I will Do My Part.

 

I ask This Great Unseen Healing force

To Help Both Present and Absent Ones Who Are in Need of Help

And to Restore Them to Perfect Health

I Put My Trust in the love and Power of God

How do you go through this shift in your personal awareness? With knowledge and acceptance that you can move into a higher frequency to enjoy a new life is possible. Moving out of the ego and fear based life into a heartfelt life through doing the inner work, you recognize the best is yet to come.